By Dr. Peace Barrigah
In a time where distractions are everywhere, social media, peer pressure, and the constant rush for instant gratification, it’s easy for teenagers to lose sight of what truly matters: their future. But sometimes, all it takes is one letter. One voice of love and wisdom to anchor us to our purpose.
In January 1998, a devoted father from Ghana, wrote a handwritten letter to his daughter Peace, who had just returned to boarding school. He encouraged her to stay focused on her studies, not to neglect any subject, and to strive for excellence. “You really need to work harder for all As,” he urged. “There is nothing like playing for this one year. Those who have been taking your time, put them off.”
His words weren’t harsh, they were full of hope, belief, and deep care. He reminded her of the purpose behind her education: qualifying for university and setting herself up for success. He noticed her improvements, acknowledged them, but lovingly pointed out where more effort was needed. He didn’t just critique, he offered support. “I do promise doing all that I can for you,” he wrote. “I want you to also promise to do all that I want from you.”
Fast forward to today, Peace is not just a success story; she’s a living testament to her father’s wisdom and her own discipline. She now holds a bachelor’s degree, two master’s degrees, and a PhD. Her achievements are not only a tribute to her personal commitment, but to the foundational support and encouragement she received early in life.
What Can Teenagers Learn from This?
1. Your Future Is Built Today. The grades you earn, the habits you form, and the choices you make now will shape your future. Every assignment you complete and every extra hour you dedicate to studying is an investment in yourself.
2. Temporary Sacrifices, Permanent Rewards. There’s a time for fun and a time for focus. Like Peace’s father wrote, “You will have enough time for them later.” The parties, the gossip, the endless scrolling, they can wait. Your education cannot.
3. Excellence Is a Journey. Peace didn’t start at the top. She received Bs, a C, and even a D, but her father saw her potential and pushed her to aim higher. It’s not about where you begin, but how hard you’re willing to work to get better.
4. You’re Not Alone. Behind every successful student is someone who believed in them. Whether it’s a parent, teacher, mentor, or friend, listen to those voices of encouragement. Let them fuel you, not discourage you.
5. Own Your Promise. Just as Peace’s father promised to do all he could to support her, he asked her to make a promise in return. Keep your end of the promise to show up, give your best, and honor the opportunity you’ve been given.
Today, Dr. Peace stands as a beacon to teenagers everywhere: Your background does not define your ceiling. Your focus, determination, and the values you hold close will take you further than you ever imagined.
So, to every teenager reading this, if you’re tired, overwhelmed, or wondering if it’s all worth it, let this story be your reminder: Stay focused. The world needs what’s inside of you. And your future self will thank you. Cheering you on to greatness!
